I will admit that I have been woefully bad with keeping up with this blog over the last several months. We’ve been pretty busy what with Richard starting a new job, moving provinces, me going back to work and the boys starting day home. But, better late than never, here goes my 17 month update about the boys!
Probably the biggest change in the last month was the fact that the boys started attending a day home. It is run by a couple who have been doing this for the last 18 years, and came recommended from a friend whose son goes there. The boys started going on November 5, and it has been a bit of an adjustment to say the least. They moved from 2 naps (around 9am and 2pm) to only 1 nap (12pm)…or at least they should have! They haven’t quite gotten a hang of the napping thing at day home yet, so they are only sleeping for 20 or 30 minutes a day which makes for very grumpy boys by the end of the week. But, Friday they napped for 2 hours at day home, so fingers crossed they will keep that up next week. They have been enjoying day home though; they have some new friends now to play with and they love Nayereh who takes care of them during the day. I think once we can get the nap schedule down, then everything else will also fall into place.
With the adjustment of going to day home, their sleep schedule has changed a bit as well. Instead of going to bed at 7:30/8pm, they are now going to bed at 6:30/7pm, and waking up anywhere between 5-6am, as opposed to between 6 and 7am. They still aren’t sleeping through the night, but they’re only waking up once or twice a night now which is better than the last couple of months.
They love to read! Philip especially has a couple of favourite books (Hand, Hand, Fingers, Thumb and The Nose Book) that he always picks out and then will back up onto my lap for me to read him the book. He’s usually happy to pick out a book and flip through the (cardboard) pages. James likes reading too, but can usually be found playing with (and throwing) toys.
They are both so busy and love to play hide and seek and chase. In our new place, we gave them the big bedroom and it has a double closet on one side with 4 sliding doors to open. They’re favourite game is running and hiding in the closet and then being chased to their cribs and back again. They definitely aren’t afraid of the dark either because they will shut themselves in the closet a lot too.
They are still such happy boys (minus the grumpiness from not napping) and love to laugh, dance, be twirled and bounced. They are so good at playing with each other (most of the time) and I often find them sharing toys and food and their cups. It is so sweet to see one of them take their snack and feed it to the other one!
They are walking up and down the stairs now, with support from the railing of course. They are so steady on their feet and are starting to run places instead of just walk!
We had quite a bit of snow in November so went sledding several times, which they love! They are also getting more comfortable with walking in the snow in their boots, although it can be tough especially when we get more than a few inches of snow.
The boys love to give high fives, blow kisses, wave hi and bye, and they’ve started ‘cheers-ing’ their cups. Richard and I often play rock, paper, scissors to decide who has to do a chore, and the boys love it and try to play too…but they always pick rock. Philip often says “Nya” (our dog’s name) and “dog”, and both of them love to chat and babble. They are both recognizing things, like when they see a pig in a book they will make their version of an ‘oink’ noise. They also respond some basic instructions, like “dance”, “stompy stompy feet” (which is when they stomp their feet quickly), “kicky kicky feet” (which is when they lay down on their backs and kick their feet), and “sit down” (most often said when they try to stand in the tub). They also listen to “no/don’t touch that”…most of the time.
Last month they also caught a stomach bug, which Richard and I both promptly caught. Luckily no one in the family was at peak-sickness at the same time though, and it completely passed through our house in less than a week.
James now has 9 teeth and Philip still has 8. They are learning to use cutlery now and both boys can basically eat a small container of yogurt unassisted now (although it is extra messy). James is great at picking food up with a fork too…almost better than me actually! Both boys love to eat and eat pretty much everything now (minus the few days after the stomach bug). Some of their favourite foods are roast chicken dinner, carrots, Shepherd’s pie, yogurt, and eggs and toast. Broccoli seems to be the one thing that they consistently turn away.